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"Jesus said to the people who believed in him, 'You are truly my disciples if you remain faithful to my teachings. And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.'" John 8:31-32 NLT
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Thoughts for the Day
Enabling could be called good intentions gone wrong. An enabler is well meaning but often keeps the loved one from facing the truth about their life-controlling problem . . . and they need to face the truth to be set free.
Here are some characteristics of an enabler:
Unknowingly helps their dependent loved one to continue their downward spiral of addiction
Continues to help even though their assistance is being abused
Learns to rescue the friend or loved one from their responsibilities
Actually prolongs the problem
Consider This . . .
Here are some examples of enabling:
Covering up the behavior of the friend or loved one
Making excuses for them
Minimizing their problem
Blaming yourself for the problem
Bailing them out of jail
Giving them "one more chance" over and over again
Do you see yourself in any of these behaviors? Ask God to show you if your behavior is actually hindering rather than helping your loved one's recovery.
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